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Rape victim calls for women to speak out

Faye Wilson from Buckie was only 16 when she was raped by a friend in the small Moray town.

03 February 2010 11:24 GMT

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A rape victim has waived her right to anonymity to urge other women to break their silence and seek help.

Faye Wilson from Buckie was only 16 when she was raped by a friend in the small Moray town.

Rape victim calls for women to speak out

It took her five years to pluck up the courage to report the crime, by which time it was too late for police to gather the evidence they needed for a prosecution.

The 26-year-old now urges others to report an attack as soon as possible.

She told STV News: "For a long-time I blamed myself, I thought it was my fault. Then I realised this is not my fault and I plucked up the courage to report it.

“That was a big step. I wish I had reported it sooner, but just the fact I have reported it was a big step.

"The main thing I can say to people is try and report it as soon as possible, if you can report it straight away then that's the best way to do it.

“Obviously that's where the big issue lies because a lot of people don't want to report it for the same reason I didn't, you don't feel like you are going to be believed or you think your family and friends might turn against you, or just the simple fact you just think it's not going to go to court, which is very common.

“We need to start changing that. We need to start to get more cases to court and get more convictions."

With the help of Rape Crisis Scotland Faye now has her life back on track, and wants to give something back to the organisation which she feels saved her life.

Faye plans to do a charity treck of Mount Kilimanjaro to raise funds for the Aberdeen and Fraserburgh Rape Crisis Centres.

Sandy Brindley of Rape Crisis Scotland praised Faye’s decision to come out publicly as a victim of rape.

She said: “I think it’s very brave of Faye to speak out about what’s happened to her. I think it can take a lot of courage to speak publicly about being raped.

“A lot of women feel guilty about experiencing sexual violence – that there’s maybe some shame attached to it and really there shouldn’t be any because it’s a crime inflicted upon someone.

“We’re full of admiration for her for wanting to raise some money for Rape Crisis.

“In some ways I think it’s a real shame that it’s necessary for women to speak out and undertake fund raising on our behalf. It should be completely funded by the state I think.”

Faye says the centres helped save her life.

She said: "It's crucial to have these centres, without them, people wouldn't get the help they needed to deal with these situations, which would just be absolutely horrific."

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    1. 03 Feb 2010 12:32GILLEBRETH said

    only a coward would take advantage and assalt a woman,know who your friends are and how to defend yourself against low life.

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    2. 03 Feb 2010 19:55scottishgal said

    well done faye! im backing you! buckie is backing you! :D

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    3. 03 Feb 2010 21:53Faye Wilson said

    thanks for the comments and the support guys :)

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    4. 05 Feb 2010 11:11maypepper said

    Well done Faye, I've lived in Buckie so I know how brave you had to be to speak out. My daughter was raped and is now a drug addict and alienated from her family. Go on and have a great life.

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    5. 06 Feb 2010 13:32Faye Wilson said

    Dear maypepper,

    Thanks for your comment. I'm very sorry to hear about what happened to your daughter. Have you suggested to her she seeks help from a centre or maybe even show her my interview. The interview has already encouraged a few women to seek help. Thanks, I plan to continue living life to the full. You only get one chance.

    Faye

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    6. 09 Feb 2010 11:381Gus said

    What a case! Waiting this long to claim she was raped so that she could get publicity to help her raise her profile to get more money for her holiday in Kenya. Too many women claim rape years after the event only for the opportunity to destroy another person’s life. This happened to me where I was falsely accused of forcibly sexually assaulting a woman, I use this term as the STV system does not allow the legal term, and attempted murder only to be acquitted on both charges. The police were only, by their own admission, interested in meeting targets. Getting more cases is completely the wrong attitude as the police will only get more men in court who are innocent just because of the claims of vindictive and malicious women only using the courts to try and destroy the life of men who have left their relationship. Genuine cases MUST come forward but keep the 9 out of 10 cases that do not get a conviction out of the courts. Sandy Brindley of the body praising Faye Wilson should only be praising people and not just women, who have been raped to report a rape at the time but not five years later for publicity as this is just sick.

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    7. 10 Feb 2010 22:13Kev6012 said

    Today in the news a young woman awaits a sentence for "wasting police time". A trivial charge maybe, but it shouldnt be. She made false allegations of r-pe and assault.I cant imagine what the poor guy and his family have went through in dealing with her false accusations. Dont get me wrong, my heart goes out to any woman who is molested(im told not allowed to use the word r-pe on here),and i have a young daughter, but these idiot females who "cry wolf" sets genuine victims back years. I hope she is jailed for what she has done(though i bet she wont be)!

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    8. 18 Feb 2010 21:10finechty lass said

    good for you Faye, shame you didnt have the strength to report the attack a long time ago, but being a 16 year old child at the time i can only guess how difficult it must have been.. am glad you have sorted yourself out, why should your quality of life and that of your family and friends suffer for something that was NOT YOUR FAULT.. x

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    9. 20 Apr 2010 20:55Faye Wilson said

    Kev, I totally agree with you, these women that cry r@pe, which does happen quite a lot, is an absolute disgrace. It's women like this that make it hard for women like myself to report this. I was only 16 (an innocent child) when this happened to me back in 1999. It took me 5 years to report it which I eventually did in 2004. It's now took me 10 years to get where I am today and I certainly don't let negative comments get me down. As for that women being jailed for wasting police time, I completely agree that she should be. What she put that guy and his family and friends through is appalling. I now want to start doing more to help campaign against men being raped/abused and to start educating girls and boys better and sexual issues. It is 100% unacceptable for a girl to accuse a guy of raping her if she willingly had sex with him.

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    10. 20 Apr 2010 20:55Faye Wilson said

    Kev, I totally agree with you, these women that cry r@pe, which does happen quite a lot, is an absolute disgrace. It's women like this that make it hard for women like myself to report this. I was only 16 (an innocent child) when this happened to me back in 1999. It took me 5 years to report it which I eventually did in 2004. It's now took me 10 years to get where I am today and I certainly don't let negative comments get me down. As for that women being jailed for wasting police time, I completely agree that she should be. What she put that guy and his family and friends through is appalling. I now want to start doing more to help campaign against men being raped/abused and to start educating girls and boys better and sexual issues. It is 100% unacceptable for a girl to accuse a guy of raping her if she willingly had sex with him.

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    11. 20 Apr 2010 20:55Faye Wilson said

    Kev, I totally agree with you, these women that cry r@pe, which does happen quite a lot, is an absolute disgrace. It's women like this that make it hard for women like myself to report this. I was only 16 (an innocent child) when this happened to me back in 1999. It took me 5 years to report it which I eventually did in 2004. It's now took me 10 years to get where I am today and I certainly don't let negative comments get me down. As for that women being jailed for wasting police time, I completely agree that she should be. What she put that guy and his family and friends through is appalling. I now want to start doing more to help campaign against men being r@ped/abused and to start educating girls and boys better and sexual issues. It is 100% unacceptable for a girl to accuse a guy of r@ping her if she willingly had sex with him.

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    12. 20 Apr 2010 20:56Faye Wilson said

    argh, silly internet posted it 3 times, sorry.

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    13. 29 Sep 2010 21:57Aruna said

    Dear Faye,

    I am a man who like you has been r@ped, and I also lost my lover May, ocean of love, and her baby, my daughter Saalam, meaning Peace, because of violent men. Thank you for speaking out - you help us all, and in fact you help all of life, because I believe r@pe is destroying our planet. I'm so glad R@pe Crisis gave you such excellent help. Everyone woman and man who's been r@ped should heal. Say hello to Africa for me - I am coming home and when I have, like you, dealt with it,I want to found a school in Africa as part of a project called "Voices of Dead Women". I believe the Earth can be a place where women are never r@ped, and if this happens so many other things can change. Look out for my novel, "Rosa and Taji" about two lesbian girls who want to end r@pe.

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    14. 22 Nov 2010 04:28disgusted by faye's lies said

    Hey all, let's look at the facts cause I know this chick first hand and know what she is all about...

    1 she made a allegation that she was r...d and only talking about it now, why? attention seeker definitly due to the following facts...

    She started in the cayman and could not even finish a dive course and left to do it in Utila. She then finished that course and started a follow up course, DM, where she did not finish it as well.

    Then she came back to the island and wanted some instructor to sign her of, but he refused cause she was not even up to standard.

    She then left back to scotland where she then made this accusations, cause she amounted to nothing and wanted justification for her failure..

    her friends ann, and britany said that they are going to climb kilimanjaro this year and the actually did..

    Faye however had no further finances and therefore came up with bull story to get funds for her trip to Kenya, for the crisis centre in scotland..

    I said that she would never be able to do it, and the prove was eventually in the pudding, cause she did not even get close to it...

    So therefore, she is a lying attention seeker, with no backbone, trying to win people around her sympathy, and that why all this deception and lies..

    she will never change, especially us that knows her...

    people from scotland, wake up she is a con artist delux, she did not do anything she said cause she has goal for nothing...

    CON ARTIST and Lying beeeeatch>>>>

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